I saw something on the net today and truer words were never spoken. It had a dog making a lunge at a bird, and in doing so the dog set itself up to fall off a big cliff. The caption read " ACTIONS TAKEN IN ANGER CAN NEVER BE UNDONE." I find that to be quite true. Three years ago I said something to someone in anger and I lost someone that was very special to me. I wish I could take it back or apologize , but it is impossible. The day I said what I said to her she put me on ignore. You can not fix something if someone is not willing to listen. If I knew then what I know now I would have thought more about the decision to say what I did.
I knew what I said would make her stop the fight with me, but I did not look at the big picture. I could not see the long term results of one statement made in anger. I never thought she would put me on ignore. I know it was my own fault for saying something that would cut so deep. I was angry and not thinking clearly. My advice to everyone is if you are mad, take a few steps back and calm down a little before you too say something you can not undo. It is not worth losing a friend over being mad.
