boxingfanmanic

They're not!  At least, not unless you're the only one doing so.  Something I wish I'd known when I was younger .  Also Truisms about the rocky road of romance:  "go slow means "go away."  "I need more time" has an unwritten corollary:   "To find someone else."  "It's not you, it's me" -- it's you all right.  And the most useful tip of all:  If someone ever tells you they're not good enough for you, LISTEN:  it may be the only unvarnished truth you'll ever hear from 'em!